Forgiveness or Fool
Went to church and wouldn't you know it, it's all about forgiveness. I don't know about you, but my pride gets in the way and I do not want to look like a fool. At what point do you stop forgiving and not look like a fool. Of course, forgiveness does not necessarily mean that you forget or continue in a toxic relationship. I do struggle with this concept, the turn the other cheek and love everybody. Loving someone that hurt you....<sigh> THAT is a tall order, do you have to be a saint to achieve this? I mean the biggest theme song of the century seems to be Frozen's "Let It Go", what does that mean? Does that mean you just become someone's doormat? Do you never stand up for yourself? What if the wound is really deep, how do you forgive that? Am I the only one that dwells on transgressions against me? You see the wound is so great for me that I can't stop thinking about it, I think the reason is that I was clueless, I thought my world was perf...